The Best E-course I’ve Ever Seen

Hey all! My website is back up! You may have noticed that it was down for a while. Technical difficulties doesn’t even BEGIN to explain what was going on, and it was a mess of gargantuan proportions. But we shall not dwell on the past! We shall not dwell on...

Sometimes Good Things Happen

I just walked out of one of those therapy sessions that is really hard. (My own therapy, not with a client.) My new therapist is a rockstar. She is so good at eliciting content, and then she gently challenges in this perfect way. I think this might be my favorite way...

Daily Download #3

Met some of the Mayorgas today–Carlos’s half brother. Amazing family. His nieces and nephews are delightful. Time to tune in: There is someone waiting to join. A particular vibration. You will provide passage. Your parenting journey isn’t over. You...
So turns out, I’m really just a blogger

So turns out, I’m really just a blogger

Okay, I get it. Online writing has migrated to “platforms” and then then the platforms have migrated to even more platforms, and Twitter has remained its glorious self throughout it all, and the art of blogging died an ignominious death one sad night in...

What it’s like to have a post go viral

  When Lolly and I had our coming out post in 2012 go viral, we were completely bushwhacked by it. It was such a shock, watching that thing spread and spread. It was terrifying and electric. There is nothing quite like it. It’s a gut-dropping feeling, and...
The New Phase

The New Phase

Hey, is anybody out there? *taps mic an annoying number of times* {crickets} Quick question: is blogging dead now? Yes? Cool. Well then, welcome to my WEBSITE where I publish personal essays about my LIFE right here on the WORLD WIDE WEB on this official WEBSITE that...